Is your date a private person? Or would he enjoy some aspect of the limelight? Would he want to be the center of attention in every room? Or maybe he’d want to be famous by an online username only. This question helps you understand what kind of recognition, if any, energizes a person.

Source: The question bank from the 1997 landmark study out of SUNY Stony Brook on Interpersonal Closeness (famously discussed in 2015 in the wildly viral New York Times article: “To Fall In Love With Anyone, Do This” )

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